Everybody experiences disappointments. I believe it’s one of those “can’t live without em” thing in our life. Nobody would want to experience disappointments but since this is inevitable, online help for handling disappointments comes handy. May it be petty or not, disappointments must be handled in a manner that would best benefit the person. Disappointments builds up and if left unsettled, this may cause you to be down and really depressed. Worst is, it may lead to your death… sudden or slow death.
However petty it is, dealing with it at immediately will spare you from going through worst cases. Having experienced many disappointments in life… may it be with family, friends and work, i have experienced that this usually works out for me…
- Acceptance – The moment I feel bad because things did not turn out to work just as I expected it to, I say… “that’s life… it’s not always a sure win.” Accepting the fact that I am having disappointments lessens my emotional burden.
- Moving On – Life does not end there. I don’t forget or even try to forget disappointments. It stays there but I don’t dwell on it. I learn from it. Then go ahead with other stuffs in my life. Anyway, life has so many concern and I can’t let those “many” go unattended just because I am disappointed.
Being disappointed over life’s stuffs… family, friend and work is something you have no control over but being diappointed over yourself…that’s what you have control over… exercise and enjoy it.
I want to do something. This actually excites me’ gives me the thrill and well I am beginning to like the challenge. I am seeing this man… he’s a family man. He was and still is my friend. I am just curious how he would react if I give in to his flirtations. I want to know if he would go all the way and do it or he’d keep our friendship. Not that I want to ruin his family it’s just that this thoughts had been occupying my mind lately and I want to answer the questions that’s repeatedly playing on my mind.
Anyway, before I’ll leave our place. I will have my answers.
I asked my friend to uninstall the windows xp starter edition on my notebook. I want to change it to home edition so that I can be able to password protect it as well as to open as many programs at the same time but my friend won’t do it. It’s still under warranty… duh! i stilllhave to wait until the warranty would lapse.
Anyway here is my own neo x1..
There will always be goodbyes for every hellos (I hope this won’t happen with my blog!). Yesterday, I already tendered my resignation, i wanted it to be immediate because i am not already happy with the environment I’m working on but to no avail. I was obliged to extend till next month.
I loose my job but… I have my new Neo x1. I think this is better than my job. I love how handy it is for me. People who loves to be on the go would love this notebook.
i still haven’t explored everything but from what I’ve read…technically, it is really good. I only have one prob though. I can’t open more than three programs at the same time. I don’t know if this is one of its limitations. i already e-mailed them about it. Then I can’t see the task bar properties.
Anyway, i love my Neo x1… and it will be my buddy from now.
I will be uploading a pic of my Neo x1 here…
I was going to write about honesty but on second thought I found it more appropriate using the word “Probity” after my buddy Meriam informed me how close and better that word is. According to her, Probity implies tried and proven honesty or integrity while honesty implies a refusal to lie, steal, or deceive in any way. So i decided, I’d go for probity.
These past few months, I have been struggling on some issues that concern unjust and unlawful actions done by the management with the rank and file employees. (By the way, I’m one of the management that’s why I know this…i think even if i’m not one of the I’ll still know about this.) Like taking reducing the benefits that has already been enjoyed by the agents since the inception of the company. Denying to exercise your right expressly granted by the Phlippine law. Things like that.
Our HR(main office) is the worst HR that I have ever had since I started to work. She really gets into my nerve and I really despise what she does. She should be the last person to do it but she initiated it and despite being told that it was against the DOLE she would just say… ssshh “secret muna natin to“. Duh!
And our BM (Branch Manager) refrained us from complaining being part of the Admin. Hello! Is that right? Just because we became admin our right to contest their decision is already over?
Our Operations Manager is a number One drama queen. During the meeting, when their faults are being disclosed she would start to emote and have this teary eyes…. Are we on a masquerade?
I think this complaining thing will really end up the moment i hand in my resignation. Not that I am resigning from the work… I am resigning from the work place!
I almost forgot to mention that among the admins on our branch… there’s this one lady who stood up. I will be writing about her… she’s an interesting subject. She voiced out everything and named names! I like her guts. She’s got guts more than I do…
Hey, our company, despite chaos among the management and the agents is till up and earning millions (in peso) every month. This gives me idea that an IT company with good management can earn billions. Well… i better think find that IT company or better yet start that company.
Life is full of surprises, challenges, success, failure, joy and tears. If you haven’t experienced all of these I guess you were born DEAD!
In every challenge and trials that comes to our lives, if it doesn’t kill us, it always gives us something that would help us grow. We just have to open our eyes and see beyond what is happening.
The failure and success are what we have at the end of every circumstance that we have been through. The result of every decision that we made.
It brings us joy and tears. Something to celebrate.
What am I writing here? I just want to write after having been crying and pouring out to the Lord. I wanted to write… and this is what I write… Oh my… I think I need a person to talk to!
I love going to places and just appreciate the beauty of nature. Last April, as the sun was up doing it’s thing, my family decided to go out and explore this newly developed falls in Tapaz, Capiz. They call it “Pangilatan Falls”. The journey was not easy cause i have to ride at the back of the Chairman of Tourism’s Toyota Hilux just so I can have a free ride and the driver, the Chairman himself, i guess, forgot that he’s got passenger’s at the back.
So, after that ride of my life we came to the place… “Pangilatan Falls” and I really fell… fell in love with the place. I wish I had a better camera, I could have captured every beautiful site that I saw. It was not yet fully developed. Only few people were enjoying the place. I guess it’s not yet that popular and I’m thankful for that cause I get to see it first without the crowds.
Anyway, here’s a picture of one of the 17 falls. The photo can’t justify the it’s real beauty…so i suggest you have to see it for yourself.
Tapaz’ Chaiman of Tourism, Mr. Arnold Jaranilla has been working so hard developing this place. He has been personally overseeing the development of this (as I heard the natives talk ). The land owners of this place and the natives, they call themselves “pumuluyo” (hope I got that right) joined in the cleaning of the place for free.
I didn’t get the chance to see all of the 17. I guess I don’t already have the stamina after that bumpy ride. But I do plan to go there cause I know I haven’t seen half of it’s beauty. I still want to see the falls inside the cave…
If you plan to go on swimming… this place is one of the best place you could ever be. I almost forgot, drinking water is fresh and it has been tested and declared potable to drink.
If you’re a nature lover like me, you wouldn’t want to miss going to this place. You can contact Mr. Arnold Jaranilla, they call him Amay, through his cell# (63)9195084175.
